About Us
Inclusivity Is Sexy
We don’t judge, we have fun.
Welcome to Find Femboys, the premier dating community that celebrates diversity and embraces the beauty of self-expression. We’re proud to be an inclusive platform, providing a safe space for individuals identifying as sissies, femboys, and crossdressers, as well as those who appreciate and support them. Our mission is to break down societal norms and promote understanding, acceptance, and love for all our members.
Our Origin Story
Find Femboys was founded by Lilly Lustwood — also known as Amanda Valentine — founder of Abrams Publishing House and a bestselling author of feminization romance. Long before Find Femboys existed, Lilly was writing stories for readers going through their own changes in gender expression, some temporary and some permanent.
Through that work, she kept hearing the same thing from her readers: the stories helped, but they were still going through it alone. So she set out to build something her readers could actually use — a place where they wouldn’t have to go through that journey by themselves, whether they were just exploring or living it every day.
Find Femboys is that place.
You Can Be Anything
At Find Femboys, everyone deserves to find love and meaningful connections without judgment or discrimination. We foster an open, non-judgmental environment where our members can confidently express their true selves — however they define that, and whether it’s who they’ve always been or who they’re still becoming.
- Quick Setup — creating a Find Femboys profile takes just a few minutes.
- Free Membership — you can start browsing and connecting for free.
- Support — reach out any time and we’ll get back to you.
